First, watch The three Amigos.
Everyone has one, an "El Guapo" aka arch nemesis. Mine happens to be a petite, ethnic girl who tries waaaaaaaaay too hard to be a caucasian valley girl. What's with that?
A couple things:
1) I don't understand girls who act differently towards someone depending on his/her gender. And it is usually a girl who is annoyingly flirty around boys, and anally selective with her girlfriends. My arch nemesis would only talk to me when I was talking to a guy, or if she was bored and needed to look socially occupied. Not cool.
2) What makes a girl that way? Do these girls have any insight into how flaky and fake they are?
3) Even in her fair-weather ways, it took me a while to write her off. I bounced between feelings of "is-she-a-good-person-I-have-just-misunderstood?" to "what-a-self-absorbed-b*atch-what-is-her-problem?" and in the end, I have come to this conclusion: Not worth it.
Clearly she has some underlying insecurities, and I don't care. I will judge you based on how you treat me and those I care about. I am working on weeding these kinds of people out of my life.
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ReplyDelete"El Guapo" made me laugh...that movie is excellent. I also enjoy the expression "anally selective." Why would anyone talk to somebody just to look "socially occupied"? That's the perfect opportunity to whip out some headphones. How phony. Not worth it, indeed.